We only know what we have when it's gone

Why do we often take this for granted, 

with people and possessions? We always think

 that it will be always there for us.

There are many things that we don’t realise their true value until they are gone from our lives.  Think of cell phones or internet.  I know I feel my life has just ended if I do not have my cell phone on me and not having the internet prevents me from doing my work.  The little things in life are usually the most important things. 

A common thing that happens in a relationship is complacence with your partner.  Happiness comes from recognising and appreciation what you have in life, and what you don’t have does not count.  Once happy there is a great chance you always will.  If you get bored with you usual routine change it, don’t change your partner and loose something you have for something you don’t want because you scared to change routine.

People usual regret breaking up with their partner.  You end your relationship because you can do better.  Once out there in the dating world, you realise you already had it.  Sometimes it’s too late to learn but remember one can learn from this, and not repeat this mistake. A person has a imagine in their minds of what they want, nothing is perfect, only perfect for you.

You are so lucky to have that someone in your life, don’t destroy all because at one time you really work hard at it.  This is a true gift to be cherished forever.

You never know when you going to lose something or have it taken away from you for always.  Don’t take anything for granted.

 People are always looking for something better.  The grass is always greener on the other side, until you are on the other side.  People will always make mistake, if you only prepared to forgive once, or perhaps give a person a second chance, it will never work.  Forgive always, with no limit to your forgiveness.

People are inclined to want something they don’t have.  So when you have lost it, you want it back and you go through the whole routine all over again and wondered why you are doing this.  The problem is one only remembers the good times when apart, and the bad times when together.  Until you find that person that you really want to be with and you accept the bad with the good.

People never think of their actions now will impact their futures.  They have no conception of long term consequences.  People make mistakes and leave things they truly loved the most.  They had failed at the time to appreciate what they had at the present times, and will continuously regret their decisions.

The most valuable things are usually the things that are with us at all already.  Happiness will come to those who appreciate what they already have.

Just like you don’t know what you have until it’s gone, you don’t know what you’ve been missing until it arrives.