Men and their Mothers

Mama's boy
Women will never understand men.  That bond between sons and mothers is a mystery.  Most been are "mama's boys", though most men don't like to be labeled this way.  The relationship that a son has with his mother determines what kind of relationship he has with women in general and what he thinks of himself.
A momma's boy may have to discuss everything with his mother for approval, rather than standing firm and making decisions by himself. He tends to lean on to his mother for so many things, even when it comes to decisions that couples should make together. Momma's boys may not have a good grip on adulthood, mainly because they have been way too pampered.

The mother son relationship is really complicated.

Its so heart warming when a man treats his mother with respect and alway available to help her when she needs it.

A man that cannot get on with his mother, but lets his mother control him.  A man that fears his mother, the mother always comes first before his girlfriend or wife, is not very appealing.

The mother son relationship has an impact on on the sons own relationship.  Some times men don't know what role his mother should play once he gets a girlfriend or gets married.


There are healthy and unhealthy relationships between mother and son.


Unhealthy 
The son always puts his mother ahead of everything.  This will cause problems with his girlfriend or wife.

The son fears that his mother will be angry if he does do as she bids him to do and disappoints.  The girlfriend or wife will eventually get upset with this.

The son who fears his mother will soon resent her (he probably will not even recognise this)  It will lead to guilt, which will effect the relationship that his has with his girlfriend or wife.  He is not even aware most of the time that he has doing this.

Healthy
The son wants to see his mother.  If the son has plans already he will make arrangements to see his mother at another time.  The son will be able to tell his mother that he loves her and gives her small gifts of appreciation ever so often,  the son will be able to hug her also.

Without fear the son will love his mother unconditionally, his feelings towards his mother will not lead to guilt on his part.  The son is always honest and open towards his mother, even if he knows that it will hurt his mother.  His mother loves him unconditionally and will be rather have honesty than lies.

A son that has a very good relationship with his mother will want to see her and be with his mother.  The bond will be very strong.  Mother's will know that when her son gets a girlfriend or marries, she will want the best and realise that she is no longer the only woman in her son's life, and that she needs to take a back seat, she will know that she is loved still and only want whats best for her son's happiness.

A man that fears and resents his mother will automatically do that to the person he is in a relationship or even marries.  Men should treat their mothers with kindness, respect and gratitude because he wants to, not because his mother demands that he does this.  Mothers are not perfect, so the son must make his relationship with his mother the best his can, and help the relationship between his mother and his girlfriend or wife.

Your man will treat you how he treats his mother!

Why are men attracted to woman who are like their mother?

A man's mother is the role model. When it comes to choosing a partner, a man really is drawn to someone cut from the same cloth as his mother. When the son grows up, he will marry a woman just like her.  Even if the relationship between son and mother is not a good one, he will be attracted to a woman just like his mother.

Mother son relationship stems from childhood

The mother son relationship has got a lot to do with the sons childhood and things that happened when the son grew up.  When the son's father left, when the son was just a little boy, and the son was all his mother had.  Or when the father died, and the son feels sad for his mother and tries to compensation for his father not being there.  It could even be that the son's father treated his mother terribly and the son feels that he needs to make up for it.  The son's mother has a very domineering nature and wears "the pants" in the household.  The mother's rules the roost.