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is actually very sad, how a little boy will grow up and be different later on to a women It's all to do with how a mother raises her son against how she raises her
daughters.
Boy’s gestation period is 9 months, exactly like a girl, no difference.
Boy’s development once born could be a bit slower than girls, sitting,
crawling, walking and speech. Speech in boys seems to happen later than
boys. The crunch comes in how women raise their sons differently to their
daughters. So women are to blame for bringing up "mommies"
little boys!!
The difference between boys and girls in the terms of anatomy is pretty
obvious. When it comes to brain development, the difference between the
two sexes are really small. In other words life experience has more
to do with the behaviour and development, rather than gender. A
boy would need more attention and encouragement than a girl, from a very early
age. (Most mothers feel this way.)
Some difference between boys and girls
Social skills
Girls are more in tune to other people's emotions, based on facial
expressions they can work out how people are feeling. Baby girls are more
inclined to look at their mobiles, rather than looking at faces. This
difference gets more pronounced in grownups. Experts are inclined to
think, girls are encouraged to express their feelings and boys are encouraged
to suck it up.
Mothers know that boys are not less sensitive and they know they much
teach their sons to express their feelings.
Spatial Skills
Spatial skill is the ability to solve problems involving size, distance
and the relationship between objects. Boys have a head up on this. Boys
as young as three to five months can already visualize how an object will
appear when rotated, girls the same age can't.
Toys
Babies don't distinguish between "boy" and "girl"
playthings. Studies show baby boys love dolls. With my daughters I
gave them trucks and cars to play with. Peer pressure in preschool will
influence them in the taste of toys. Boys should be offered a variety of
toys, instead of sticking to the stereotypical stuff.
Physical Activity
Studies show that baby boys are bigger wiggle in the womb than boys,
squirm more on the changing table, get restless in stroller and craw for longer
distance. The most active kid is the boy, running around, playing ball
and jumping
Aggression
Boys are more physically aggressive than girls, even before they turn
two. Prenatal testosterone plays a hug part. Girls are no angels;
they can kick, bite, and hit more. Boy boys and girls must be taught
limits, they must learn not to hit.
Walking
There is no difference between sitting, crawling, and walking.
Though mothers can overestimate their boy’s physical skills and do the
reverse to their daughters. Walking for boys is more to do with their
physical size, since boys tend to be heavier and taller than girls around about
six months. My nephew walked when he was 10 months old. My nephew
was a small baby.
Talking
Girls start earlier to talk than boys on average. Girls have
larger vocabularies than boys as early as 18 to 24 months old. Of course
the child's exposure to language will account for at least 50% of the
difference. I never used baby talk to my daughters when they were babies.
Mothers and Fathers should talk to their girls or boys, and read to them
every night.
Potty Training
Girls’ potty train must faster than boys. Here boys need to be
inspired to help with their potty training!
Mothers that make their sons their surrogate husbands
It’s not a very fair situation when mothers make their sons into
surrogate husbands. The mother feels so deprived out of love and
attention that they turn to their sons for comfort and emotional support. These
mothers are either single or in a marriage that is unfulfilled or unbalanced.
The long term effect on these boys is that these boys are being incapable
of having mature, loving and healthy relationships as adults. They will
constantly have to support and comfort their mothers.
Women that treat their sons like their boyfriends
I don't have sons, thank God. I would be very hard on my son's if
I had any. I never went easy on my daughters. Please don't get me
wrong, I love them very much, but it's a harsh world out there, and babying
ones children is not going to make growing up later any the easier. I
notice that women out there treat their sons like their boyfriends. Women
can't seem to do enough for their baby boys. Even sisters take care and
wait on their brothers. Women are nurturers by nature. How would
daughters feel equal to their brothers, when their brothers are treated
differently by their mother?
Maybe as women we feel good when a male needs us and that holds true for
our sons. Maybe it is the unconditional love that sons seem to offer to their
moms while daughters consistently challenge us. I could be completely off on my
observation, so I am wondering, “Do you think moms treat their sons
differently than their daughters?”
Mothers
must understand that the son is your equal. He’s not your support system, you
are his support. When you turn him into an emotional partner, the dynamics of
the mother-son relationship are skewed and your son will carry this unbalance
into his adult relationships.
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