Believe in yourself

“When you doubt your power, you give power to your doubt.” ~Honore de Balzac

Those voices inside your head.  "I can't do it. I'll never be good enough"  We will fail even before we even attempt to try

The voice taunts us, its sets us to fail, fail because we never try.  We can't expect everything to come to us, we need to believe in ourself, we have to take the risk.  If we fail, don't give up.  Keep on trying because its all worth while in the end.

Self-doubt causes ones to loose confidence, strips logic and reason from the brain.  It steals happiness and it leave only fear and insecurity in place.

Use self-doubt to your benefit, with self-knowledge and understanding. 

Being afraid

When we fear, our goals get further out of our reach.  If one lets it. We unconsciously start to question our knowledge and abilities to do anything.

Self-doubt does not build conficence.  We need to face our self-dout and work at it continually.

Self-doubt, we are crying for help.

Doubt is part of human nature, just like fear, joy and sadness.  It needs understanding.  If we want to improve ourself, stop fighting it, come to grips with it.  Come to a better understainding why you react to things in a certain way.  Address these issues and work on the fears that causes self-doubt.

Identify and ease your doubts.

Learning how to recognize when your self-talk takes a turn for the worse is crucial. When you hear yourself saying, “I can’t,” or, “I don’t know,” or, “What if,” a red flag should go up.

Instead of telling yourself, “I can’t do X,” say, “I can’t do X yet. But I’m working on it.”

Or if you start wondering, “What if I fail?” you can respond by saying, “Then I’ll try again.”

Doing this transforms a negative situation into an opportunity for growth. In the end, it’s about giving yourself a chance.

Stop listening to toxic people.

Toxic people are convinced that everything is impossible, and they are quick to shoot down ideas. They’ll poison your mind into a state of hopelessness.

Don’t let them steal your energy just because they’ve lost theirs.

Instead, surround yourself with supportive and passionate people who can both inspire you and bring out the best in you. You can find them among friends, family.

They will lift you up when you feel down and help you see the bright side of your darkest fears and doubts.

Recall your successes.

This one is tough. When you’re down, you’ll more easily remember the bad instead of the good. And oftentimes, the “rah-rah” pep talk just doesn’t cut it.

Grab a piece of paper or small notebook, or open a blank document. Now write down your successes, big or small.

If you’re a bit bashful about your achievements, ask someone you trust to tell you the great things they think you’ve done. It’s refreshing and a great confidence boost.

And finally, keep your list with you at all times. It will help you find your way back to yourself whenever you get lost.

Trust and love yourself.

You probably spend more time being your own worst enemy instead of being your own best friend.

But you deserve to treat yourself better. After all, you have the rest of your life to spend with yourself.

Think of it this way: Would you mentally abuse or condemn your loved ones? Would you let them suffer in their time of need? If not, then why would you do it to yourself?

So, be kind to yourself. You are more capable and worthy than you give yourself credit for.

Give yourself permission to try…and try again.

Self-doubt never disappears. Over time, you just get better at dealing with it.

It will greet you every time you fall out of your comfort zone and whenever you strive to do something great.

But know that it’s not something you have to fear or resent. Your doubts are only thoughts, not your future.

Sure, something may go wrong. But if you never try, you’re losing an opportunity to improve your life.

Are you willing to risk that instead?