What is Love?
Love is an emotion, more than most emotions, its rooted in our bodies and in the ways our bodies age together. Its not lust, which can lead to romantic love. As love grows and deepens, it lights up some parts of our nervous system and dims others. The importance of feel-good hormones like serotonin and dopamine may decline over the course of a relationship—but a love that reaches maturity will bind the lovers on a neurological level. Far from an “an ever-fixed mark,” love is a process subject to biological forces beyond our conscious control.
One thing we've learned about love so far: Those who fall in love most readily are those with a history of insecure attachment.
Yes, we've learned a few things. We now know that it is the
insecure rather than the confident who fall in love most readily. And men
fall faster than women. And who ever said sex had anything to
do with it?
“Live to learn to love.
Learn to love to live.
Love
to live to learn
so that you may live the life that you yearn.”
Love has to be learned. The love of parents for
children, of children for parents, of friend for friend. Loving our enemies or to love unlovable people, to be unselfish, to
return kindness for unkindness. We have to learn this love, and it is the
great business of life to do it. Affection does not have to be learned.
Love is what every one seeks. We spend years and even life times searching and longing for it. Some even die for love.
We will alway continue to learn. Every minute of the day brings new opportunities to learn something that we did not know before. As long as we're open to receive God will continue to teach us every day.
“The more I learn, the more I realize how much I don't know.”― Albert Einstein
Love is unselfishness. One has to adapt and adjust to the needs and desires of others.
saying it is not enough. Love is an action that is demonstrated. When in a relationship couples must show that that they are in love. Actions are prove that love truly exist in the heart and mind of someone. there is an emotional, mental, physical and spiritual commitment. Verbal expressions of love is a comfort to the heart.
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