Your
purpose in life
It is
essential to have a purpose in life. It gives you a reason to get up in the
mornings. Purpose can give one a sense
off direction in ones life and give meaning to a life that would be utterly and
totally boring and pointless. It makes
one more focused and gives us the ability to make and achieve goals that we
want to set up for ourselves. For some
it is connected to work. Where we get a
lot of satisfaction in doing it. If you not happy in your job maybe it is time
to find something else that you will enjoy doing. To some it is connected to
family responsibilities. To others is in
their religion believes. To some it
would be all of the above. I would say
our purpose is our partner but I changed my mind. We cannot depend on others to make us
happy. A relationship should start whereby
both people are happy and as the relationship grows so does the shared
happiness. We are responsible for our
own happiness as we are responsible for sorting out our own insecurities and
lack of confidence. With a purpose it
will help us deal with our insecurities.
It will also boost our confidence.
In fact
everything has a purpose. Even a purpose
has a purpose. Everything that has
happened to us and everything that will happen to us has a purpose. Every heartbreak, every disappointment, every
failure and every joy and success. We
need to learn from all of this and we need to put ourselves out there because
if we don’t we will never experience how wonderful life is and experience the
joy of being alive.
The purpose
in a relationship is not to have someone that completes us but to have someone
that shares our completeness.
In order to
have completeness in ourselves first we need to connect with yourselves first. Acknowledge the good and bad in oneself. Work on the things that need to change. Fight the depression and the loneliness.
There are many ways to connect to whom we are and by doing so we come to know
whom we are. Without self awareness we
will not able to make changes. The
things we need to change in order to become the person we want to be. That is how we can complete ourselves. Then we can connect to others. Again as with everything these connections
require work. They require our attention,
care and nurturing to grow into meaningful relationships.
Connections
that are needed for a long term relationship.
The initial connection is the physical attraction which is really important.
The emotional connection is been able to share everything with each other especially
things that make you feel very vulnerable.
If you both can do this it shows that your relationship is heading in
the right direction. If not your
relationship still needs time to grow. Again this type of connection takes time
and effort. The social connection. Sharing interest. Doing activities together and both really
enjoy doing it. Becoming friends.
Connection where you find your are both on the same wave length. The last connection is where you both feel
that you are meant to be together. The
more connections that you have will result in you having a very successful
relationship.
I use relationship
as an example because is what most
people are looking for. There are right
and wrong reason to embark on a relationship.
For a relationship to succeed is to be complete before looking for that
partner. For a relationship to grow it
entails a lot of hard work and that never stops. It requires staying power through the bad
times.
We are complete in ourselves. But sometimes it
takes a life time for us to understand this. For every doubt that breeds in our
own mind, we have a confident thought to balance it! There is light within all
of us but sometimes we choose to see only the darkness. We are strong in
ourselves but sometimes we choose weakness. Because at the end of the day to
have felt sadness means we are capable of discovering happiness too!
